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深刻的愛,讓人不爭氣2007-10-29

  

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                                                                深刻的愛,讓人不爭氣 

                                              願意主動用妥協來交換感情生活的風和日麗

                                           因為懂得不爭氣,所以也漸漸學會不為小事生氣 

                                                    雨過天青,沒有烏煙瘴氣容身的餘地

                                                         相愛,不爭氣,也不生氣 

                                                    這種境界很高,妥協是其中一把天梯 

                                          必須先願意放下身段、彎下腰,才能夠爬得上去 

                                            一旦爬上妥協的天梯,就會看見寬廣的世界

                                              把雞毛蒜皮的小事都丟在腳下、埋進土裡

                                                 當作幸福的肥料,滋養兩個人成長所需

                                               在愛情中主動妥協,並不是逼自己認輸
                                                 而是用積極的決心,贏回彼此的信任 
                                     妥協,也是一門很難學會的藝術,要靠雙方一起學習 
                               雖然其中一方退了一步海闊天空,但另一方也不能得寸進尺
                              否則,就是「軟土深掘」,只會讓彼此在愛情的困境中愈陷愈深

                                                       愛,沒有對錯。如果還想在一起   

                            當對方向你低頭的時候,記得伸出你的手,給他一個深情的擁抱
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

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